Please help, my husband, as been withdrawing from me the past 2 months, I have known there has been something, but you just carry on, he kept saying nothing is wrong. until the other night after having sex he told me, he didn't feel the same way about me. (sex was g8). He bottles everything up and has been down for quite a while, with lots of ups and downs in his emotions, we have a very stressful job dealing with life and death, he has had 2 very close deaths in the past 4yrs, his parents have had serve money problems, and a catalog of other things. But he won't talk about any of it. His mum said he has always been the same. Now he has said he doesn't love me any more and is very hurtful (which is not like him) very negative towards us, doesn't know if he wants to try for the family sake we have two children. He just says he doesn't know what he wants he just doesn't love me any more his feelings have changed. Can this happen with depression? has this happened to any1 else?
> Please help, my husband, as been withdrawing from me the past 2 > months, I have known there has been something, but you just carry > on, he kept saying nothing is wrong. until the other night after > having sex he told me, he didn't feel the same way about me. (sex > was g8). He bottles everything up and has been down for quite a > while, with lots of ups and downs in his emotions, we have a very > stressful job dealing with life and death, he has had 2 very close > deaths in the past 4yrs, his parents have had serve money > problems, and a catalog of other things. But he won't talk about > any of it. His mum said he has always been the same. Now he has > said he doesn't love me any more and is very hurtful (which is not > like him) very negative towards us, doesn't know if he wants to > try for the family sake we have two children. He just says he > doesn't know what he wants he just doesn't love me any more his > feelings have changed. Can this happen with depression? has this > happened to any1 else?
Yes, this happens all the time! I don't know if there is a solution but he needs to get help for his depression. The best place I found for support for you is http://depressionfalloutmessageboard.yuku.com .
That happens all the time. It has happened to me. I found that medications allowed me to overcome my depressions and clear my thinking. If you are interested in particulars of my story email me off list.
> Please help, my husband, as been withdrawing from me the past 2 > months, I have known there has been something, but you just carry on, > he kept saying nothing is wrong. until the other night after having > sex he told me, he didn't feel the same way about me. (sex was g8). He > bottles everything up and has been down for quite a while, with lots > of ups and downs in his emotions, we have a very stressful job dealing > with life and death, he has had 2 very close deaths in the past 4yrs, > his parents have had serve money problems, and a catalog of other > things. But he won't talk about any of it. His mum said he has always > been the same. Now he has said he doesn't love me any more and is very > hurtful (which is not like him) very negative towards us, doesn't know > if he wants to try for the family sake we have two children. He just > says he doesn't know what he wants he just doesn't love me any more > his feelings have changed. Can this happen with depression? has this > happened to any1 else?
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