On Nov 2, 8:17 pm, Wayne Boatwright <wayneboatwri...@arizona.usa.com> wrote: I cradled Mr. Bailey as she gave him the injection. He
> had a dignified and peaceful passing.
I'm glad you were able to do this - you have a strong and compassionate character. He knew he was held in loving arms til the end, bless you.
It is very tough now, but after a while, I found it helps to create a pet's own little album of photos. Someday it'll bring a warm smile. Also, making a donation in his memory to an animal group helps too.
>>> Awwww. He was a pretty striped tabby. I'm so sorry for your loss.
>>You're grieving more over the loss of Wayne's cat than you did when Kili >>died, vulture...
> That's bullshit and you know it DK, so shut the f*ck up.
> -- > I love cooking with wine. > Sometimes I even put it in the food.
Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' is more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care about Christy. She would certainly have understood offering sympathy over the loss of a beloved cat.
> >>> Awwww. He was a pretty striped tabby. I'm so sorry for your loss.
> >>You're grieving more over the loss of Wayne's cat than you did when Kili > >>died, vulture...
> > That's bullshit and you know it DK, so shut the f*ck up.
> > -- > > I love cooking with wine. > > Sometimes I even put it in the food.
> Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' is > more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care about > Christy.
That's almost certainly the case.
> She would certainly have understood offering sympathy over the > loss of a beloved cat.
Sympathy is one thing, but acting like that "Rainbow Bridge" crap is anything but sickening is another. I mean, "He is in a better place..."???
> >>> Awwww. He was a pretty striped tabby. I'm so sorry for your loss.
> >>You're grieving more over the loss of Wayne's cat than you did when Kili > >>died, vulture...
> > That's bullshit and you know it DK, so shut the f*ck up.
> > -- > > I love cooking with wine. > > Sometimes I even put it in the food.
> Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' is > more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care about > Christy.
That's almost certainly the case.
> She would certainly have understood offering sympathy over the > loss of a beloved cat.
Sympathy is one thing, but acting like that "Rainbow Bridge" crap is anything but sickening is another. I mean, "He is in a better place..."???
> Jill
--Bryan
Bryan, you have your beliefs, I have mine. I'll find out when I get there ;) But it's DK's attitude; he never gave a crap about Christy and that pisses me off the most. He's nothing but an attention seeking whore. Why still keep bringing her up trying to garner more attention? He's a pathetic loser and always will be.
In article <fc6209b6-29b1-4547-8db3-f75641b0d...@f16g2000yqm.googlegroups.com>,
--Bryan <class...@brick.net> wrote: > On Nov 4, 2:07 am, "jmcquown" <j_mcqu...@comcast.net> wrote: > > Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' is > > more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care about > > Christy.
> That's almost certainly the case.
> > She would certainly have understood offering sympathy over the > > loss of a beloved cat.
> Sympathy is one thing, but acting like that "Rainbow Bridge" crap is > anything but sickening is another. > I mean, "He is in a better place..."???
So how much did it cost you to read about it? Nothing. How could reading those words make you sick? Only someone who was already sick, could be sickened by reading that. And after the first time, when you see the title, can't you just skip to the next post?
-- Dan Abel Petaluma, California USA da...@sonic.net
>>>> Awwww. He was a pretty striped tabby. I'm so sorry for your loss.
>>>You're grieving more over the loss of Wayne's cat than you did when >>>Kili died, vulture...
>> That's bullshit and you know it DK, so shut the f*ck up.
>> -- >> I love cooking with wine. >> Sometimes I even put it in the food.
> Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' > is more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care > about Christy. She would certainly have understood offering sympathy > over the loss of a beloved cat.
> Jill
Yes, Christy certainly would have.
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~~ If there's a nit to pick, some nitwit will pick it. ~~
> I'm so sorry for your loss. > Probably the last thing you need to hear right now is time is a healer. > One day at a time. > Grief sucks
Thank you, Linda. Yes, time does heal, and grief takes its own course. Right now I'm more concern with one of our other cats who is obviously grieving very badly. At least comforting him diverts my attention from my own thoughts.
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~~ If there's a nit to pick, some nitwit will pick it. ~~
> > >>> Awwww. He was a pretty striped tabby. I'm so sorry for your loss.
> > >>You're grieving more over the loss of Wayne's cat than you did when Kili > > >>died, vulture...
> > > That's bullshit and you know it DK, so shut the f*ck up.
> > > -- > > > I love cooking with wine. > > > Sometimes I even put it in the food.
> > Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' is > > more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care about > > Christy.
> That's almost certainly the case.
> > She would certainly have understood offering sympathy over the > > loss of a beloved cat.
> Sympathy is one thing, but acting like that "Rainbow Bridge" crap is > anything but sickening is another. > I mean, "He is in a better place..."???
> > Jill
> --Bryan
> Bryan, you have your beliefs, I have mine. I'll find out when I get there.
Most of my friends are Christians, but that Rainbow Bridge thing was way over the top. My wife refused to believe that it wasn't a joke.
> ;) But it's DK's attitude; he never gave a crap about Christy and that > pisses me off the most. He's nothing but an attention seeking whore. Why > still keep bringing her up trying to garner more attention? He's a pathetic > loser and always will be.
I agreed with you about that, and my best wishes go out to Wayne as well.
> In article > <fc6209b6-29b1-4547-8db3-f75641b0d...@f16g2000yqm.googlegroups.com>,
> --Bryan <class...@brick.net> wrote: > > On Nov 4, 2:07 am, "jmcquown" <j_mcqu...@comcast.net> wrote: > > > Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' is > > > more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care about > > > Christy.
> > That's almost certainly the case.
> > > She would certainly have understood offering sympathy over the > > > loss of a beloved cat.
> > Sympathy is one thing, but acting like that "Rainbow Bridge" crap is > > anything but sickening is another. > > I mean, "He is in a better place..."???
> So how much did it cost you to read about it? Nothing. How could > reading those words make you sick? Only someone who was already sick, > could be sickened by reading that. And after the first time, when you > see the title, can't you just skip to the next post?
Morbid curiosity. Reading it aloud to my wife, I laughed so hard I could hardly read.
> -- > Dan Abel > Petaluma, California USA > da...@sonic.net
>>>> Awwww. He was a pretty striped tabby. I'm so sorry for your loss.
>>> You're grieving more over the loss of Wayne's cat than you did when Kili >>> died, vulture...
>> That's bullshit and you know it DK, so shut the f*ck up.
>> -- >> I love cooking with wine. >> Sometimes I even put it in the food.
> Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' > is more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care > about Christy. She would certainly have understood offering sympathy > over the loss of a beloved cat.
> Jill
"DK" posted none of those things. Where do you get your "inside" information? "DK" did more for Christy than you will ever know. It wasn't limited to petty pep talks either. You have no idea what you are talking about, again. If she really confided in you, you would understand, but that was all narcissistic bullshit.
> In article > <fc6209b6-29b1-4547-8db3-f75641b0d...@f16g2000yqm.googlegroups.com>,
> --Bryan <class...@brick.net> wrote: > > On Nov 4, 2:07 am, "jmcquown" <j_mcqu...@comcast.net> wrote: > > > Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' > > > is > > > more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care about > > > Christy.
> > That's almost certainly the case.
> > > She would certainly have understood offering sympathy over the > > > loss of a beloved cat.
> > Sympathy is one thing, but acting like that "Rainbow Bridge" crap is > > anything but sickening is another. > > I mean, "He is in a better place..."???
> So how much did it cost you to read about it? Nothing. How could > reading those words make you sick? Only someone who was already sick, > could be sickened by reading that. And after the first time, when you > see the title, can't you just skip to the next post?
Morbid curiosity. Reading it aloud to my wife, I laughed so hard I could hardly read. --Bryan
Which is why I find it hard to believe you have any feelings, Bryan. To lose a friend, loved one, pet... no matter what you 'believe' it's not something to laugh about. As I'm sure you'll find out one of these days.
--Bryan wrote: > On Nov 4, 2:12 pm, Dan Abel <da...@sonic.net> wrote: >> In article >> <fc6209b6-29b1-4547-8db3-f75641b0d...@f16g2000yqm.googlegroups.com>,
>> --Bryan <class...@brick.net> wrote: >>> On Nov 4, 2:07 am, "jmcquown" <j_mcqu...@comcast.net> wrote: >>>> Thanks, sf. This idiot pretends to care about Christy. In reality 'DK' is >>>> more interested in calling attention to himself. He doesn't care about >>>> Christy. >>> That's almost certainly the case. >>>> She would certainly have understood offering sympathy over the >>>> loss of a beloved cat. >>> Sympathy is one thing, but acting like that "Rainbow Bridge" crap is >>> anything but sickening is another. >>> I mean, "He is in a better place..."??? >> So how much did it cost you to read about it? Nothing. How could >> reading those words make you sick? Only someone who was already sick, >> could be sickened by reading that. And after the first time, when you >> see the title, can't you just skip to the next post?
> Morbid curiosity. Reading it aloud to my wife, I laughed so hard I > could hardly read.
Someone has a profound sense of loss and mourning and they find comfort from reading a poem. Whether the poem is trite or factual or fantasy doesn't matter... it apparently made them feel better.
Do you really find that funny? Laugh out loud hysterical?
> > --Bryan <class...@brick.net> wrote: > > > Sympathy is one thing, but acting like that "Rainbow Bridge" crap is > > > anything but sickening is another. > > > I mean, "He is in a better place..."???
> > So how much did it cost you to read about it? Nothing. How could > > reading those words make you sick? Only someone who was already sick, > > could be sickened by reading that. And after the first time, when you > > see the title, can't you just skip to the next post?
> Morbid curiosity. Reading it aloud to my wife, I laughed so hard I > could hardly read. > Which is why I find it hard to believe you have any feelings, Bryan. To > lose a friend, loved one, pet... no matter what you 'believe' it's not > something to laugh about. As I'm sure you'll find out one of these days.
There's a phrase for that, "inappropriate laughter". Somebody who has no feelings, or "doesn't care", would have skipped the post. The fact that he "laughed so hard I could hardly read" is not the sign of someone who was not affected. I was reading a story yesterday about someone who was in a room with six doctors, who were asking him why he was trying to commit suicide with a knife, drink himself to death and have a life that was torn to pieces because he couldn't decide what to do with his life, and with his adult son who was a drug addict and stealing from him. Pretty sad. The doctors told him to cut the jokes. Why? Because it was a technique to avoid thinking about the questions and what he wanted to do with his life.
-- Dan Abel Petaluma, California USA da...@sonic.net
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