I would imagine this has been called to your attention before now . . . but in case not . . . and for your other RAM friends who did not see it.
While reading The Playboy Advisor this morning (PLAYBOY April 2008) I came across a question from a reader who is interested in becoming a sperm donor. This person wants to meet the potential people he helps and asks Playboy how to do this.
In their reply Playboy lists several good reasons why knowing the person who receives your sperm is not a good idea, including the one where the recipient can sue and usually win support from the donor if he is known. They add this exception, and they add it in parenthesis, and so will I. (A notable exception occurred in January in Pennsylvania, where the state supreme court ruled that a man who donated sperm to a loved did not owe support. The justices said to rule otherwise would undermine women's right to use known donors.)
> On Thu, 15 May 2008 08:49:50 -0500, "Joan in GB-W" <jjkr...@aol.com> > wrote:
> >Hi JohnP
> >I would imagine this has been called to your attention before now . . . but > >in case not . . . and for your other RAM friends who did not see it.
> >While reading The Playboy Advisor this morning (PLAYBOY April 2008) I came > >across a question from a reader who is interested in becoming a sperm donor. > >This person wants to meet the potential people he helps and asks Playboy how > >to do this.
> >In their reply Playboy lists several good reasons why knowing the person > >who receives your sperm is not a good idea, including the one where the > >recipient can sue and usually win support from the donor if he is known. > >They add this exception, and they add it in parenthesis, and so will I. (A > >notable exception occurred in January in Pennsylvania, where the state > >supreme court ruled that a man who donated sperm to a loved did not owe > >support. The justices said to rule otherwise would undermine women's right > >to use known donors.)
> >Sounds familiar?
> Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! What right has anyone to play these > stupid bloody self-indulgent games with people's lives?
> Several years ago, a young woman, then about 20-21, appeared on TV in > Australia describing the problems she faced as the first Australian > so-called "test-tube baby". She had no idea of, and could not find > anything about, her sperm-donor father. Among other more mundane, but > to her very important things, she had several medical issues for the > treatment of which she needed to know about her family medical > history. It was a very enlightening and startling presentation and > removed any sympathy I ever had for anonymous sperm donors, and pretty > much for the whole third-party donor IVF process.
I've never understood it. If you can't have a child the usual way, why not adopt? It's not as though there's a shortage of kids that need homes.
Once Upon a Midnight Dreary, While Joan in GB-W Pondered, Weak and Weary, Over Many a Quaint and Curious Forgotten Post, s/he wrote: --------------------------------------------------------------
>I would imagine this has been called to your attention before now . . . but >in case not . . . and for your other RAM friends who did not see it.
>While reading The Playboy Advisor this morning (PLAYBOY April 2008) I came >across a question from a reader who is interested in becoming a sperm donor. >This person wants to meet the potential people he helps and asks Playboy how >to do this.
>In their reply Playboy lists several good reasons why knowing the person >who receives your sperm is not a good idea, including the one where the >recipient can sue and usually win support from the donor if he is known. >They add this exception, and they add it in parenthesis, and so will I. (A >notable exception occurred in January in Pennsylvania, where the state >supreme court ruled that a man who donated sperm to a loved did not owe >support. The justices said to rule otherwise would undermine women's right >to use known donors.)
>Sounds familiar?
>Joan
Wow. I always wanted to be in Playboy. I think.
Now I have an excuse to buy a copy, and my wife can't get mad when I bring it home. "Look, Jan, I didn't buy it for the pictures. My case is in it." ;)
Thanks for letting me know.
I wonder if April's is still on the stands? It's now May. Usually they have July's out by now.
<do.not.send.s...@this.address> wrote: > Once Upon a Midnight Dreary, While Joan in GB-W Pondered, Weak and > Weary, Over Many a Quaint and Curious Forgotten Post, s/he wrote: > -------------------------------------------------------------- > >Hi JohnP
> >I would imagine this has been called to your attention before now . . . but > >in case not . . . and for your other RAM friends who did not see it.
> >While reading The Playboy Advisor this morning (PLAYBOY April 2008) I came > >across a question from a reader who is interested in becoming a sperm donor. > >This person wants to meet the potential people he helps and asks Playboy how > >to do this.
> >In their reply Playboy lists several good reasons why knowing the person > >who receives your sperm is not a good idea, including the one where the > >recipient can sue and usually win support from the donor if he is known. > >They add this exception, and they add it in parenthesis, and so will I. (A > >notable exception occurred in January in Pennsylvania, where the state > >supreme court ruled that a man who donated sperm to a loved did not owe > >support. The justices said to rule otherwise would undermine women's right > >to use known donors.)
> >Sounds familiar?
> >Joan
> Wow. I always wanted to be in Playboy. I think.
> Now I have an excuse to buy a copy, and my wife can't get mad when I > bring it home. "Look, Jan, I didn't buy it for the pictures. My case > is in it." ;)
> Thanks for letting me know.
> I wonder if April's is still on the stands? It's now May. Usually they > have July's out by now.
And you know this because...???
Heh. I picked a good time to pop back in. Oh, Jan...
> Once Upon a Midnight Dreary, While Joan in GB-W Pondered, Weak and > Weary, Over Many a Quaint and Curious Forgotten Post, s/he wrote: > -------------------------------------------------------------- >>Hi JohnP
>>I would imagine this has been called to your attention before now . . . >>but >>in case not . . . and for your other RAM friends who did not see it.
>>While reading The Playboy Advisor this morning (PLAYBOY April 2008) I came >>across a question from a reader who is interested in becoming a sperm >>donor. >>This person wants to meet the potential people he helps and asks Playboy >>how >>to do this.
>>In their reply Playboy lists several good reasons why knowing the person >>who receives your sperm is not a good idea, including the one where the >>recipient can sue and usually win support from the donor if he is known. >>They add this exception, and they add it in parenthesis, and so will I. >>(A >>notable exception occurred in January in Pennsylvania, where the state >>supreme court ruled that a man who donated sperm to a loved did not owe >>support. The justices said to rule otherwise would undermine women's >>right >>to use known donors.)
>>Sounds familiar?
>>Joan
> Wow. I always wanted to be in Playboy. I think.
> Now I have an excuse to buy a copy, and my wife can't get mad when I > bring it home. "Look, Jan, I didn't buy it for the pictures. My case > is in it." ;)
> Thanks for letting me know.
> I wonder if April's is still on the stands? It's now May. Usually they > have July's out by now.
> John P
Let me know if you can't find a copy. I can always send you ours.
Once Upon a Midnight Dreary, While Jim Gysin Pondered, Weak and Weary, Over Many a Quaint and Curious Forgotten Post, s/he wrote: --------------------------------------------------------------
>> I wonder if April's is still on the stands? It's now May. Usually they >> have July's out by now.
>And you know this because...???
When I was younger, I used to know a lot. (Now, not so much) That was one of the factoids I was aware of.
>Heh. I picked a good time to pop back in. Oh, Jan...
Once Upon a Midnight Dreary, While Joan in GB-W Pondered, Weak and Weary, Over Many a Quaint and Curious Forgotten Post, s/he wrote: --------------------------------------------------------------
>"Jr@Ease" <do.not.send.s...@this.address> wrote in message >news:p4qo241h4o3pbsl9u3nfqf1qlcl836usrc@4ax.com... >> Once Upon a Midnight Dreary, While Joan in GB-W Pondered, Weak and >> Weary, Over Many a Quaint and Curious Forgotten Post, s/he wrote: >> -------------------------------------------------------------- >>>Hi JohnP
>>>I would imagine this has been called to your attention before now . . . >>>but >>>in case not . . . and for your other RAM friends who did not see it.
>>>While reading The Playboy Advisor this morning (PLAYBOY April 2008) I came >>>across a question from a reader who is interested in becoming a sperm >>>donor. >>>This person wants to meet the potential people he helps and asks Playboy >>>how >>>to do this.
>>>In their reply Playboy lists several good reasons why knowing the person >>>who receives your sperm is not a good idea, including the one where the >>>recipient can sue and usually win support from the donor if he is known. >>>They add this exception, and they add it in parenthesis, and so will I. >>>(A >>>notable exception occurred in January in Pennsylvania, where the state >>>supreme court ruled that a man who donated sperm to a loved did not owe >>>support. The justices said to rule otherwise would undermine women's >>>right >>>to use known donors.)
>>>Sounds familiar?
>>>Joan
>> Wow. I always wanted to be in Playboy. I think.
>> Now I have an excuse to buy a copy, and my wife can't get mad when I >> bring it home. "Look, Jan, I didn't buy it for the pictures. My case >> is in it." ;)
>> Thanks for letting me know.
>> I wonder if April's is still on the stands? It's now May. Usually they >> have July's out by now.
>> John P
>Let me know if you can't find a copy. I can always send you ours.
>Joan
I have a friend who gets it, I'll ask him. And Beeg just emailed a copy of the page in question. She said she got it off the internet. I wonder... ;)
<do.not.send.s...@this.address> wrote: > Once Upon a Midnight Dreary, While Jim Gysin Pondered, Weak and Weary, > Over Many a Quaint and Curious Forgotten Post, s/he wrote: > --------------------------------------------------------------
> >> I wonder if April's is still on the stands? It's now May. Usually they > >> have July's out by now.
> >And you know this because...???
> When I was younger, I used to know a lot. (Now, not so much) That was > one of the factoids I was aware of.
Put wings on that and it still won't fly. But for a modest monthly payment to a Milwaukee P.O. address, I'll make sure that this stays between us and the one or two other people using Usenet.
> >Heh. I picked a good time to pop back in. Oh, Jan...
Jr@Ease wrote: > Wow. I always wanted to be in Playboy. I think.
> Now I have an excuse to buy a copy, and my wife can't get mad when I > bring it home. "Look, Jan, I didn't buy it for the pictures. My case > is in it." ;)
> Thanks for letting me know.
> I wonder if April's is still on the stands? It's now May. Usually they > have July's out by now.
Once Upon a Midnight Dreary, While Pogonip Pondered, Weak and Weary, Over Many a Quaint and Curious Forgotten Post, s/he wrote: --------------------------------------------------------------
>Jr@Ease wrote: >> Wow. I always wanted to be in Playboy. I think.
>> Now I have an excuse to buy a copy, and my wife can't get mad when I >> bring it home. "Look, Jan, I didn't buy it for the pictures. My case >> is in it." ;)
>> Thanks for letting me know.
>> I wonder if April's is still on the stands? It's now May. Usually they >> have July's out by now.
>> John P
>I'm not buying it unless you're on the centerfold.