Telling Someone About AvPD - alt.support.social-phobia

Message from discussion Telling Someone About AvPD
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From: "John Sheppard" <nos...@nospam.com>
Newsgroups: alt.support.social-phobia
Subject: Re: Telling Someone About AvPD
Date: Fri, 23 Mar 2007 21:43:46 +1000
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"Skog" <thes...@juno.com> wrote in message 
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> On Mar 22, 11:17 am, "John Sheppard" <nos...@nospam.com> wrote:
>> "Skog" <thes...@juno.com> wrote in message
>
>> > On Mar 22, 12:21 am, "John Sheppard" <nos...@nospam.com> wrote:
>> >> "Skog" <thes...@juno.com> wrote in message
>
>> Its like me asking you to pass the salt. You dont have to, sure its nice 
>> to,
>> but you shouldnt be condemend for not doing so.
> ______________________________________
> It's more like this.  After years of you not passing the salt when I
> asked, I told you how hard it was for me to ask, and how much it hurt
> me when you still didn't pass the salt when I asked.  Then, the next
> time I ask you to pass the salt, you still don't do it, and when my
> reaction discloses that it hurt me, you ignore that, too.
>

That still doesnt mean in anyway they should be condemned for not passing 
the salt. They have no obligation to help you whatsoever. Just because it 
would be kind, courtious and civil to do so is irrelevant.

How many ants have you stood on in your life? Did ya ever stop to help them 
out? Should you be condemned for not doing so?