>> > On Mar 22, 12:21 am, "John Sheppard" <nos...@nospam.com> wrote:
>> >> "Skog" <thes...@juno.com> wrote in message

>> Its like me asking you to pass the salt. You dont have to, sure its nice
>> to,
>> but you shouldnt be condemend for not doing so.
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> It's more like this.  After years of you not passing the salt when I
> asked, I told you how hard it was for me to ask, and how much it hurt
> me when you still didn't pass the salt when I asked.  Then, the next
> time I ask you to pass the salt, you still don't do it, and when my
> reaction discloses that it hurt me, you ignore that, too.