Kelly, practice what you preach and take some rest, too. If possible, put the lawn chair out in the new place and admire all the good points. (No picking out the negative side - we are strictly positive today). Thanks for the support you have given the rest of us.
>I saw you posting - does that mean your moving day is over and your >internet working Rose?
> Hopefully it went well and you are just resting today. It is a holiday. > So leave the worst f the boxes and the dissertation and rest and read junk > books if you have them somewhere accessible. Rest and pet the cat so he > gets used to his new home. did your shower get done in time?? Was > thinking of that on my holidays but couldn't post.
> Today is the second day packing day for me. Realtor is coming in on > Monday so time to again purge so I can downsize and start packing stuff > that I don't need to make a difference in the looks of the inside of the > house. My moving day will hopefully be in August before my infusion but > will see what I can rent in Steveston. I hope to have to make only one > trip over to look for places - maybe the end of the month after the > quilting lady's road trip to Washington. Time is going so fast now that > decisions to sell, legal seperation etc have come through. Counselling > for the 2 of us on how to handle the end are next Thursday. We will leave > the divorce for later - who knows maybe in 10 months if I haven't moved on > and he has figured out what is going on with him with his counsellor then > he can come court me and go through counselling together. Instead at the > moment it is over. Too many tears in the 3 months after he left and too > much pain. That is just since leaving. Too many years of this before to > convince him he needed help. So right now neither of us are ready to > begin again - time to heal. So that is why I have been quiet (as well as > being in Seattle for the week).
> So rest today Rose and let us know what happens at the rd appointment. > Will be thinking of you with a cold drink in hand today sitting on a lawn > chair (is that possible??)